Four Pillars will endeavour to look after and support any individual regarding their emotional health. This will often include supporting individuals on a 1-2-1 basis whilst they deal with situations such as: sexual orientation, coming out, relationship issues and HIV diagnoses.

Four Pillars is aware that emotional health is linked very closely to mental health and will work with a person to help identify their needs on an individual basis. This may mean that sign posting to other services will be requires and we will do so with discretion and confidentiality at all times.

Four Pillars recognises the link between emotional health and sexual health and will not work with anyone on just one topic. Four Pillars understand that an individual needs to be in an emotionally healthy place before they can truly start to look after their sexual health and address their sexual behaviours, in order to reduce the risk of HIV & STIs, whilst maintain the sex life they desire.


Four Pillars understands that every ones coming out stories, experiences and emotions are completely different.

For some it can be a pleasurable experience yet for others it can be painful, hurtful or traumatic so we thought the best way to advise you on this topic is if you do it for each other.

If you have a coming out story you would like to share (anonymously) please get in touch via the contact page and we will put your story here for others to read, learn and experience from.